Tip #29: Share Personal Items

The really wonderful part about being Goth is the androgyny and slight gender crossover that exists between its male and female denizens. With that said, the tip here is to share certain items with your loved one that most Day-Crawlers would find to feminine for a man to use, or too masculine for a woman to use...and no, I not talking about swapping underwear...you dirty minded little imp!...although...if that's your kinky, who am I to judge!

Let me give you a list of examples:

• Black Nail Polish
• Earrings
• Rings
• Other various jewelry
• Make-up
• Spiked anything
• Fingerless gloves
• Tee-Shirts
• Belts
• Accessories
• Cybergoth goggles
• Lapel Pins
• Chains
• Etc....

You get the idea...The end result of this is to try to bring the both of you a bit closer together by co-mingling your unique styles (the Day-Crawler version of this is sharing ChapStick); and having little trinkets shared between the both of you will also make you feel that you have a little bit of them with you at all times when you are apart. The subliminal trick here is to somehow keep your lover in your mind, and this tip greatly generates this.

So, start swapping stuff!!!